About

A Life of Reinvention

Early Life and Education

Aaron D. Proctor was born on July 11, 1981, in Chester, Pennsylvania, and spent his formative years in Marcus Hook, PA. He attended Chichester High School, where he developed an early interest in writing, politics, and goth rock and industrial music. He dropped out his senior year of high school and did not attain his GED until years later. Growing up in Delaware County in Southeastern Pennsylvania, Proctor was exposed to a blue-collar environment that would later shape his perspectives on social issues.

Move to Pasadena, California

In the early 2000s, after being arrested and serving probation for threatening a night club promoter, Proctor relocated to Pasadena, California, seeking new opportunities in media and entertainment. His early career in Pasadena saw him working in various capacities, including content management at LeisureLink, a travel and hospitality technology company.

Pasadena would become a defining backdrop for Proctor’s career, as he immersed himself in journalism, professional wrestling, and local politics.

Journalism and Writing Career

Proctor gained prominence as a columnist for Pasadena Weekly, where he became known for his outspoken and often controversial takes on local politics, culture, and current events. His writing style was sharp, unfiltered, and sometimes provocative, earning him both admirers and critics.

One of his most notable interviews was with the legendary television personality Huell Howser, published under the title “Lunch with Huell.”

In 2025, after years away from the media landscape, Proctor returned to writing with a guest opinion piece for Pasadena Now, titled “A Former Resident’s Love Letter to Pasadena and Altadena.” In this piece, he reflected on his experiences in the region, acknowledging his past mistakes and personal growth while expressing gratitude for the people and places that shaped him.

Proctor for Mayor Dot Com (2006-2009)

In 2006, Proctor launched the website proctorformayor.com, promoting his bid for mayor of Pasadena in the 2007 election. The website served as the digital arm of his campaign, which was built on a progressive platform, advocating for issues such as government transparency, community engagement, and reforming local policies. Although he did not win the election, the website and his political engagement left a lasting mark on the local political landscape.

Professional Wrestling and PCW

In addition to his work in journalism, Proctor had a deep passion for professional wrestling. He was actively involved in Pacific Championship Wrestling (PCW), an independent wrestling promotion in Southern California, where he worked as a manager and promoter.

During his time in PCW, he managed several notable wrestlers, including:

The Backseat Boyz (Trent Acid & Johnny Kashmere) – whom he led to a PCW Tag Team Championship run
The Messiah
B-Boy
Lil Cholo
Mace

His managerial style was heavily inspired by old-school wrestling managers like Jim Cornette, Paul Heyman, and Bobby Heenan, blending humor, arrogance, and sharp wit.

Right-Wing Blogging and Online Controversy

After two stints in Pasadena and a short stay in St. Louis, Missouri, in 2008 Proctor moved back to Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, where he gradually shifted towards right-wing political commentary. He became a conservative blogger, known for inflammatory rhetoric that alienated many of his former supporters. During this time, he expressed views that he would later come to regret.

In 2012, he made the decision to delete his online presence, stepping away from public life entirely. Proctor faded from the public eye and used an alias on the internet.

Personal Struggles and Redemption

Behind the scenes, Proctor was struggling with mental health issues, including:

Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD)
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)
Bipolar Disorder

In 2020, he attempted suicide twice, leading to a turning point in his life. Through extensive therapy, medication, and the unwavering support of his wife, he worked toward personal growth and healing.

By 2025, he had publicly acknowledged his past mistakes, issuing an apology on his BlueSky account (@aarondproctor). In this statement, he took responsibility for his past rhetoric, expressed remorse for his actions, and reaffirmed his commitment to supporting marginalized communities and human and animal rights, as well as his opposition to Donald Trump.

Return to Public Life and New Perspectives

Having learned from his experiences, Proctor resurfaced on social media in 2025, using platforms like BlueSky, Instagram (@aaron.d.proctor), and TikTok (@aarondproctor) to engage with the world in a more positive and thoughtful way.

While he remains passionate about politics, he no longer participates in the same polarizing discourse that defined his past. Instead, he focuses on music, wrestling, classic television, and Philadelphia sports—all of which bring him joy.

Music and Artistic Pursuits

Proctor has long been a fan of industrial, electronic, and synth-driven music. Some of his favorite artists include:

Front 242 (his all-time favorite band, with Front by Front being his favorite album)
Gary Numan
KMFDM
Front Line Assembly
Laibach
Funker Vogt
Wumpscut
Bauhaus, Tones On Tail, Love and Rockets, and Peter Murphy
Depeche Mode and New Order

He was also briefly involved in music himself, serving as a keyboardist for the band Venus Virus in May 2004, according to the band’s website.

Proctor is also known to wear makeup regularly, embracing his personal style and artistic expression.

Family and Personal Life

Aaron Proctor married in November 2011. He has no children but shares a close bond with his wife, who played a pivotal role in his journey of self-improvement.

His brother, Adam, works for a non-profit organization supporting individuals affected by HIV/AIDS.

Legacy and Ongoing Journey

Aaron Proctor’s life has been one of transformation—from a progressive political candidate to a controversial right-wing figure, and finally to a person seeking redemption and personal growth.

His story serves as a testament to the power of self-reflection, mental health awareness, and second chances. While his past is complex, his commitment to moving forward with empathy and understanding has allowed him to rebuild his life and reconnect with the passions that have always driven him.

Today, he continues to navigate his path with a renewed sense of purpose, a love for dark music, a deep appreciation for wrestling, and an enduring connection to the cities that shaped him: Philadelphia and Pasadena.

Aaron can be found on Bluesky @aarondproctor and Instagram @aaron.d.proctor.

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